Words Of Wisdom
when you are hurt
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there will be a day when you will get hurt
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and you'll ask for help
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and someone would say the words
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"it's not that bad, move on"
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or "there are others who are struggling more than you"
and if you say those words please change yourself
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then you may question things
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like maybe they are right
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maybe my feelings are unnecessary
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that they are not the ones hurt
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no one can say how badly you are hurt
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it's your heart which is hurt
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it's your trust that's been broken not theirs
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these are your feelings not there's
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and they may ask to forgive the person who broke your heart
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they were the ones who hurt you
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they broke your trust
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and if you were highly effected by it
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then you have the right to never forgive them
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you have the right to not give another chance
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you have the choice to stay away from them
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and you have the choice to say no
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in the end every choice you make
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so do what you think is right
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and don't let their opinion make an impact on you
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because the only person who's opinion about you matters
you always said I love you
try saying I love me from now on
what is beautiful
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beauty standards are ever changing
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there was a era when being healthy ( a way of saying fat) was considered beautiful
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then came the era when hourglass was beautiful
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then stick slim was the representation of beauty
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and then this era
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when huge chest and hips are considered beautiful
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you may be ugly according to today's standards but back in time you would have been a beauty icon
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or you may be considered beautiful now but you would be made fun of if you went back in time
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so what is really considered beautiful
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having beauty; possessing qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, think about, etc.; delighting the senses or mind
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well if you just pause and think about it
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it's like 'beautiful' word is used to describe an object
so why it's used to describe people
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women were looked down upon and were treated like objects
by no means I'm saying they were weak because there were many awesome tigress out there nor every man was bad and treated women badly
that was the mentality and it was considered completely normal back then
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the times did change
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but the mentality not that much
we aren't here to talk about it
I'll cover about mentality in another chapter
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this word survived and so did the way it's used
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these beauty standards survive
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so did their toxic impact
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so in place of beautiful try using
gorgeous
stunning
breath taking
marvelous
lovely
intimidating ( just learned this word...) or something else
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I know you don't mean to objectify someone
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but you are doing it nevertheless
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since that's out of the way
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let's talk about what is beautiful when talking about human
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well it depends on the person themselves
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they are not an object revolving around other's views to shape
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they are living beings with emotions
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how they see themselves is how they'll represent themselves to the world
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that's how they'll describe themselves and give others an idea of them
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so if you consider yourself beautiful
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you are beautiful
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others opinion doesn't matter
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you are not an object
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so stop treating yourself as one
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not everyone will like you
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and it's not important for them to like you
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so appreciate the ones who can see the beauty hidden inside you
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the ones who are ok with all the flaws you have
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and they love you no matter what
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so start saying I love me
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and stop being so harsh on yourself
there are billions of stars in the milky way and you are just one of them
but it doesn't change the fact you are a star and you are a unique mystery
let's talk about feminism
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I'm quite shocked tbh
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yea... it's really shocking
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so I asked my friends if I'm a feminist
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and for some reason majority of them denied it!?!
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and they acted all weird and asked what happened and if I'm ok
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I asked what is feminism to them and I'm still waiting for the response
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so let me explain it here
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feminism is demanding and treating everyone equally
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no matter the gender cast race nationality religion etc
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and yes I'm a feminist
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I found about feminism not long ago
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but I always wanted everyone to be treated equally
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so nothing changes
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not a lot of research went in it
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I just wanted to know what feminism means
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and what they do
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it's not necessary that you need to know about everything in detail if you want to do something
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well what I can say is
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they thought you hated men?
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listen feminism and misandry is different
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men hating is not feminism
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haiyaaa human race is disappointing
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( who's an uncle Roger fan and if you are not go check out his channel he's really funny.... totally unrelated)
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I guess what they are trying to do is
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instead of asking for equality they are asking for dominance
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so it's just a short introduction and discussion on feminism
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if you want to learn more
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yep, do your own research with legit websites
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I gave you a brain
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it's time to use it
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You Need To Start Using It
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instead of believing others blindly do some research
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confirm the facts you are told
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