Hello,so what is love!?
Is it being clingy for someone!?
carving for someone to hold you tight!?
Is love all about kisses and hugs!?
No.......Sir no......Stop it here.....Leave it and listen.....
It's not about I'm right and you are wrong.......These are just things I have learnt through my experiences,till now!Love Can be found anywhere like in the form of Mother,Father,Brother,Friends,Teachers,Pets and of course Lovers!
It happened to me once a person taught me that there is a huge difference between Affection and attraction!Not naming them I would like to thank you from the deepest corner of my heart cause you were right!
Now,the question is what is affection and attraction.For Long story short Affection is something which can make you happy,Laugh,cry and sad also and other hand attraction is something which can make you happy temporarily. Attraction is like A rich kid's demand and affection is the necessity of people who aren't rich!
Now, let's get even more straight to the point. Affection is Wait and Attraction can't wait. Attraction can shift but the attention driven by affection will never fade!So,Is attraction bad!?
The answer is no. No,Why I was only talking about its flaws but the truth is you just can't get affection for something without being attracted to it.
If you're not interested in something then you are not gonna build up feelings for it. Attraction is good actually,as it creates interest for something and it will become both materially and naturally part of your emotions.Just like football for a footballer,football is a game which can be easily taken as an example cause the attraction and the affection created by it's Fan's is just nothing but pure!There are two types of fans 1.Regular2.Seasonal
The first category is pure reflection of love!While second are who are least interested or started building up passion for the beautiful game.
The first day I entered the pitch as a player was attraction to the game and the reason I still play is love!
No more examples,the results of love is something which is natural.Love can't be rushed as it takes time. Ravi Thakur once wrote,"Ki korile bolo paibo tomare,rakhite akhite akhite!"Which can easily prove that,to love someone or something don't rush but when you get their attention don't let them go! As expected from a genius like him,it's just too lines to explain a very complex matter!If you love someone just verify it before if it is love or random interest.If you find out it's love then don't waste your time tell them what you feel,if their answer is a rejection then accept it cause you have no right to force them and also if you really love them you will not force. If Yes is the answer then what are you waiting for!?See you next time,until then Live.Laugh.Love!
Hello,people!Yes it's time when we will move on! Actually moving on from previous love isn't easy right!? Yes that's true it's never easy to change but sometimes necessary! Let me tell you this first if you're in a relationshp then congratulations if not then don't worry keep calm the one for you will find you soon!
It's probably everyone reading once has found someone they want, maybe got rejected or accpted! Whatever we all have learned or heard from people,"My ex wasn't loyal!"
Now the big question is what is loyalty!? It can be accepted as an element of love! Loyalty is basically nothing serious if you love someone truly! It's all about trust and being focused on your partner without letting someone else interfere into your relationship! Loyalty is something you should give and take without being asked!If not then just read the previous episode again! Asking for loyalty without giving would be the funniest thing to imagine! It's actually a very sensitive part of life!People who really care will never cheat on their love!
Now, don't tell me that you don't know Lionel Messi! Taking him as an example,that man is basically a true example of what I have said before!So,Be a Messi as a person! Don't make your Antonella cry for somebody else!
Actually those who have been through this situation of trust issues can relate what I said!
Once a person said,"If you are disloyal for being angry!Then my friend you weren't loyal from the beginning!" Trust is main thing in every relation!Like in family,friend circle trust is same important as in relationship!If you are in trouble many people will come and go,some will suggest do this,do that but a few friends will fight for you to get you out of the problem untill your truly out of it.This figures out that who are your true friends!Whom you can trust and whom you should let go!I cleary remember I had my left arm broken and it wasn't recovered full at that point I had another blow on that arm!It felt so painful and the head master told me to go home but I wasn't able to carry my bag then one of my best friends came along me to my home carrying my bag!This is what we call true friend!Also My another best friend of mine had her fingerprint lock set with my finger!Which shows how much she trusts me!(Maybe ulto ta hychilo!🤔)And same alpplies for love also,people will come and go but those who stays with you and fights for you are precious,you can trust them!Trust and loyalty are do much related,gainng trust and not breaking is loyalty!
Basically It was totally an arguable thing,if you agree then all right if not then tell me your point!😉See you Next Sunday!Until then Live.Love.Laugh!
Hey Bro! Are You available for Monday night after work hangout!?"Sorry, dude, I don't have time, maybe later!?"
Have you guys ever encountered this type of scenario!? Most probably, yes, you guys have heard this question or the reply at least once in your life! Maybe as an excuse or as an unavoidable choice, whatever that is, we have either received those words or replied to those. But Why are we talking about those answers and questions and how important it is that most of us probably use them often!? In this mortal world, the only thing that never dies is "Time". Time is like an invisible river it flows but never stops. Time is the only one except for God to Experience and witness every single thing in this universe. It's like something that will keep flowing even if this whole world stops for once. Time is like a gift given by the divine being, either for creating something or observing what others are doing. Time is the greatest teacher; it teaches us to reach new feats or counter previous mistakes; time is irreplaceable. Time fills us with moments of joy; time heals our inner damage, but most importantly, time can also kill us. There's a direct relationship between love and time. We have seen people fighting each other for both time and love. Love and Time are something that can't be controlled by a person except for God! Love is something that we have to learn from experience, and my fellow readers, experience can't be gained all at once; we have to keep going on different paths in life and give ourselves time to adapt to certain situations to explore the magic of life. People fight, love, battle, separate, and reunite according to time. May you guys disagree, but that's true. Wait still don't believe my words!? Ok if you are a kid from the '90s 20 you will relate, When we were little like 4-5 years old we used to say, "Eww................" after hearing, a great melody line, "Zindagi ek safar hain........." but now whenever we hear this, we automatically start singing,"...........Suhana....yaha kab kya ho kisne jana......!" and the rest of it! Why are we like this!? Pondering this question can state an answer that is the flow of time. Every relationship needs time to grow and get steady. Love And Time should be considered equally in terms of respect; whatever it matters, we must focus on flow in time with our loved ones. Be yourself and change your habits day to day if you feel you need to change them; from personal experience, what I can say is don't propose to somebody if you aren't truly in love with them; it will break them and break you from guilt. Wait until time shows who the real one you love is. We know falling out of love is hard but have you ever heard or watched someone falling out of time!?
Today's promise day, "Just promise to respect everyone's time and you'll see good days aren't far!"
God has blessed us with the gift of time; either use it to create something or observe others to improve, working according to your ideology.
Next Chapter Next - Sunday - Till Then! Live.Laugh.Love!
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