Hi. My name is Fumane and this is my story. I am the first born and my mom loved me a lot but people always made fun of me because I looked like a boy. One day I heard my grandma ask mom that am l even a girl since I was very ugly but my didn't mind her but it seemed like everywhere I went people would gossip about me. Two years later my little sister was born and she was a beauty. Everywhere we went people complimented her and I a lady ask is this your neighbor's child pointing at me. My mom played with my sister and barely talked it's not hard to see that I a bit jealous but when my mom started cuddling my sister not me I lost it and started pulling my little sister's hair my mom was very sick could not stop me. My father arrived that night and stopped me. The next morning I was sent to my grandma's house so she could teach me manners. I stayed for a year and by the time I came back I could do most of the things by self. When I came back mom could not stop crying she thought I had forgotten about her but I didn't . We had a new big house because mom found a good paying job we used to live at someone else's house that was very mean to me since I stole tomatoes from her shop. I went outside to play with other kids but they said they didn't want to play with me so since then I started staying in the house and helping my mom and I also started playing with my sister . Mom still played with her more than me so I went to my mom and asked if she loves her more than me but you know how parents are oh honey you know I love you equally blah blah blah. It was the mean girl's party but I told my mom I won't go there. Those girls tried to befriend me but I kept making accuses not to play with them I know I should but if someone says something that makes me sad I take it too personal. As I grew I became more beautiful and people stopped calling me a boy . Mom took me to school when I was two and put in a class with children two years older than me . My teachers were very kind and I loved school but my class mates would do bad and blamed it on me I am a very soft so they easily took advantage of me . They sometimes stole my lunch but my friend Rabi was always happy to share her lunch with me OMG I disliked those girls especially Thato she was always a pain the butt she made it her mission to destroy my life but I was scared of them.