My name is dechen Lhamo,20 years old and I'm living with my parents in the main capital city called Thimphu.And most importantly I will be married to the person who was once a mafia leader and a drugs addicted.He tells me every single day that if it weren't for me, he would still be a jobless and would have been thinking that living is so boring."I love you!" was the first word i hear in the morning and last word I hear before goiing to bed.I never thought that i would find such a loving and caring soulmate through my ex boyfriend(Phub).

I was just a normal girl and has just finished my high school and didn't got into any college cause my marks didn't turned out good.And here I am applying for all job vacancies that has been announced in news and heard from my friends but I don't seem to have any interest in it because my dream was to become a teacher.

So finally when it was around the year to end,my sister told me that I should try to learn tailoring and it's fully funded by government so I thought it might not be so boring cause it's like experiencing college life as it's a tailoring training Institute.I did applied for it and got selected for an interview on the 3rd of February,2018.I got up early than i expected cause I was so nervous plus excited.I dressed up nicely and neatly in my National dress and started to walk towards the institute(luckily the Institute was 20-30 Minute walk from my house).When I got there and looked around throught the Institute it was so big and has classrooms divided into sections just like in schools,there were many people waiting for their names to be called out(I guess around 300+) and the slot is only 250.I was feeling confident because some were way older than me and some were younger than me and I'll be at the perfect age for this training *18 *😇(just my thought).

After the interview I went home and was really happy that i did the interview so well,

after 10 minutes later the institute called me to said that I got selected for the fully funded tailoring training and I can join next week.I was so happy that I came out of my room and told my parents and sisters that i got selected and they were so happy for me and were congratulating me.

I called my boyfriend (Phub) and told him that i got selected and he told me that to congratulate me he wants to go on a date this Sunday.I did went to meet him and had such a boring day,as he was always on his phone playing Pubg that he abandons me everytime we meet.

The day ended with a hug and waved each other good byes and I reached home and laying on my bed as always,I didn't knew that the weekend has finished already and tomorrow was my first day at the Institute.I just can't wait to make new friends and to be learning new life skills like a college student.

It was such a fresh morning to start my day.I walk down the aisle and saw many people going on with their own lives,adults were going to office,students going to school, old hags were just chanting prays walking here and there.They all were moving musically (I was listening music anyway😅),one of my habit is that I can't walk alone without listening to music!!!So I just charged my phone fully last night and had my earphones placed in my handbag that i will be carrying on my frist day of training.

I reached at the Institute(DTTI) and was waiting inside a big hall where all other selected 250 members were gathered.I looked around and saw many beautiful girls and boys but there were only 30-40 boys(I don't remember clearly as it was on 2018)out of 250 people. After few minutes of waiting the seniors came in and told us that the ceo was arriving.We all were made into lines and was pin drop silence (that's just a word for describing silence😀).The CEO entered along with the government people(molahr) and with the Institute's principal sir, ADM sir, Finance madam.

They all talked and talked about the jobs we will be getting after these six month training and how many Stepind(money given to trainees or interns) we will get each month. The talk started at 9am in the morning and finished only at 1pm,afternoon(I was already feeling sleepy by listening to their talks).

I had been put in section B classroom cause it was alphabet wise and the class teacher who will be teaching us was a very pretty,young,korean looking madam(Namgay Lhamo) with a yellowish hair colour.There were already one tall girl with short hair sitting quietly in a corner (Dawa Dema-A) and a fat and cute aunty type women(Dawa Dema-B) sitting beside the madam, eating betle nut and has her mouth all red in colour(we call it DOMA in my language).

I also greet my teacher and went inside and sat quietly beside Dawa-B,waited for the others to come!I had my lunch in the class with the unknowns and we talked little by little about our village and where we live.After lunch another two girls came in,one was short and cute girl with glasses(Choni Yangden) and the other was a thin girl with an auro of a mean person (haha and that was Damcho Lhamo).After an hour ago another pretty girl came in with a behaviour of a boy and she was on drug (😎kinley zam).There were total of 5 of us in the same class and will be learning new things together.

I directly went beside Choni and had a great time with her as she was the only one who is about my age but one year older (but she looks like small kid😂).

Anyway the day came to an end and it was 5pm(Time to go home),so I put my earphone back on and went home through the road i took this morning.

P. S-His house was just on the roadside on my way home, it's just that I didn't noticed yet).

Madam Namgay Lhamo! (Teacher)

Dawa Dema-A! (Sis dawa)

Dawa Dema-B!(Ana Dawa)

Choni Yangden! (bestie forever)

Damcho Lhamo!

Kinley Zam!

I started going to my institute everyday and taking the same route every single day(but Sunday is obviously off)As time flew by I got close with my bestie Choni,I shared everything and even secret to her.Choni is very supportive and understanding but sometimes she just irritates me by being stubborn and clumsy.Time went by so fast that it's already 3 months passed and on the end of the may month(2018) my bf Phub gonna visit me again.He always visits me every end of month (he bearly stays only 10-15min),so I was excited and told choni to come with me to meet him. He called me out during my lunch break and I went down with Choni,Phub was with two other friends too. One was thin,tall,cool and was wearing speck(his name was Tshagay),other one was 😍😍😍 tall, very thin,brown in complexion and was busy playing in his phone(that's my Future hubby Namgay aka DJ).my current bf Phub was so boring that he called me down to meet him but all he does was go outside and smokes with Tshagay and other hi-bye friends including Kinley Zam.I was bored and was quietly drinking tea with Choni,suddenly DJ spoke to me saying "your bf doesn't love you seriously and he's being harsh to you" and i already knew it.It was not shocking at all but i was sad and went near DJ and listened to the Music he was playing on his phone.Then Phub called me to say that he was directly going home with his friends and told me to go back to my training class (without even saying bye or anything),i was really angry and went to my class with Choni.I thought if only I was loved by phub as much as i do.

At home,I was feeling low and was checking out my facebook and messenger,I suddenly saw a friend request sent to my facebook account by the guy(Dj) who was my current bf's (phub) friend.I accepted the friend request and went through his timeline but there was not a single post of other girls or any kind of his relationship statues but there was his photos.As I went scrolling down,there was one old photo of himself with the training dress called Zorig Chusum and it was posted in the year 2015.That year was when I was in middle school studying in grade 10 and I suddenly remembered him in that dress he was wearing in the photo. I had admire him before(i remember), when we went in the same city bus and he was always standing in a cool way (hanging on the standing rope in bus) but I was only a middle school student back then and DJ was already a big brother type.

I directly went to chat with DJ to tell him that I have always saw him everyday in bus and I had admire him for being cool (he has tattoos all over his body).He was surprised and asked me if i still admire him like before but i already have bf (phub) now and to be fateful with him I told DJ that I dont have any kind of admirings or crush on him now(actually I still admire him).

P. S-Who knows that I would soon be his girlfriend!!😍

#Choni and me during tailoring training classes!!!

#DJ in his national dress!!!*future hubby*