Everyone have their own thoughts about life. They have a clear mindset about everything.They can express them with a clear narrative . Only If people listen to them.

But unfortunately many parents or family members don't have that much time. They are busy correcting their kids and giving their own advices suppressing their kids opinions, Just to create a dominance in the family.

This is a type of family dictatorship.

But this is very normal in every Asian family. Although it is protectiveness and shaping their kids on the surface, but it's a pure controlling behavior.

No one can escape this family dynamics .

What if a girl face this everyday as she's the younger one in two girls born to Dominant father and scared mother. The Father is elder son in the family, and grandparents who want grandson so much, but couldn't get after so many deliveries and abortion.

But they're very good to their granddaughters as their obedient and good .Is it wrong to say bad about them?. But their past with their mother is not good.She's a maid with no salary. But the father don't care about this.His Wife and kids comes second to him in every way, they have to be obedient ,good to everyone understands everyone. Even though everyone looks down on them.

Is this a happy family or dysfunctional family?

No kid should deserve this. It's a trauma to suppress and accepting with smile.It's type of emotional abuse but can't say.If we try to express then we become ungrateful and arrogant kids.

This is my life which i don't want to live. Wishing to a sudden end, but it's not happening. Fate has other plans god is extending my life with no U-turn. Just living a life with body but no soul. Waiting for a miracle..but no change. Why??

Why it's happening to me??. What have I done wrong.

People will say God is testing, but it's been years since I'm living like this as my youth is passing.My interest in life is decreasing.

I'm envious of many kids who have nothing but loving parents who understand. Although financially they are struggling mentally they have peace and happiness. Which is very valuable nowadays. Many kids are craving for happy family hating every moment of their life.

Does That kid become a happy kid or unwanted kid?. Do they have a happy future?. I don't think they overcome their trauma. That lasts their whole life.

Dysfunctional family kids are victims who survived the internal wars every day. Mentally disturbed and hopeless. They will become introvert living in their own world. Imagining their own desired world.

And people think this is abnormal behavior. They need treatment. But what's the use nothing changes. People won't change,life won't change and most importantly paste life doesn't come back.

It's the truth.

On a beautiful day at afternoon a girl named Joyce living her peaceful life. Like going to college having fun with friends. Hoping for better future. Dreaming a prosperous life with financial stability.

Joyce was a engineering college student studying in her dream branch of engineering.She has a very good friends both in college and at her dorm.living like a free bird .

But all were crushed with a phone call.

The call was from her father "Hello Joyce,how are you ?".

Joyce "Hello daddy, Iam fine , what about you ? ".

Her father"Have you eaten Joyce".Joyce"Yes I had eaten, why have you called me today. Is everything ok ? ". Her father with a full of excitement"Yes everything ok, but you have to come home once ".

Joyce is surprised and asked him"Why so sudden daddy".

Her father"You got a job offer letter nani for that you have to come home ,the postman insisted on that he will handover the Letter directly to you only".

Joyce"what job Letter I have never applied to anything daddy". Her father"You didn't,, but I did, you have good GPA in tenth Grade no nani, so I applied for a small government job which only need your tenth merit. So you just come immediately take it then we will see what to do ok" then he hung up the call.

Joyce was so surprised and confused that how she got a job, But as her lunch Break time is about to be over, so she said to her father"Ok daddy I will ask for leave and come tomorrow" then she had cut the call and went her class.

She told the whole thing to her friends. They hyped her so much.

After her classes over she went to her lecturer to ask for a leave. He agreed to her request .

Then she went to her dorm packed her bags for tomorrow departure. She thought this was a just receiving the letter and as usually coming to her college.But that was the stupidest and most regrettable decision of her life.

Next day morning she woke up early, got ready quickly . As she lives in a capital city the traffic is worse. By the time she reached bus stand half-day is completed. After waiting for sometimes her City bus came then got in the bus took her seat.

It is a four hour journey to her city. As she reached her destination Her father was already there to pick her up. A day passed like this.

Next day the postman came to give her post. After She took it and opened it was written that she was really selected for government post in rural area.

All her family members were so happy as she is the first and youngest person in the whole family to get a government job

In India getting a government job is a privilege. Whether it is a small or big. Government job means life secure, stable income blah blah blah....

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Everyone in Joyce family were so happy about her getting a government job at a young age. Just after completion of plus 2 she became an officer. All her family members were so proud especially Joyce grandparents.

Whoever comes to her house her grandma brags about joyce proudly that "My granddaughter got government job and she is so young".Then they congratulat her so funny na.

This means if she takes up her job she has to discontinue her engineering. She will miss everything that person of her age will do or experience. Like going to college bunking classes, shopping with friends, learning new things, experience new environment.

In her family all were fixed that she will do the job. Joyce father was convincing her about everything so that she won't miss this chance. This is not first time when he controlled her life, even when Joyce choosing her group after her 10th grade he forced her go for medical side, but she likes mathematics.

But after her persistence he accepted it.Even when she's choosing her engineering branch he opposed her of taking her favorite branch.

She is the only in her family who expresses her interests strongly in front her father. Everyone just follows him even if they don't like his decisions.

But her father is great at convincing and controlling people

Joyce is naive and stupid girl listened to her family's advice. She didn't think much what will happen in the future. But she also asked sir's her friends' opinion. But didn't get clear answer. Here her family were strongly convincing and deciding her future.

Even outsiders were also siding with them. Like it's a government job you shouldn't miss this, it's a once in a lifetime opportunity, many people were struggling so much for this ......and all. But they don't know actually I to don't know anything about the job. What is work about, place,and timings.

After receiving the post Joyce returned to her College so that she can take her documents. It's been only six months in college, semester exams conducted. Joyce took her documents, after she finished her exams it's New Year's Eve. She went to her hometown.

It's the time for Joyce to join in her work. Her dad and uncle's took her to Head Office of the department. Even on that day also she is not sure about her decision.

If she says she don't want to do this they will forever blame her even she makes small mistakes. Joyce she is timid , naive and clumsy. Everyone in her family looks down on her. She doesn't have respect. She is slow learner. Especially her father he disrespects her so much. He won't understand anyone's feelings in the family.

While submitting her documents their also the employees were encouraging her to accept this by telling her that"This is very simple work you can freely manage this without worrying " .

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