Description

Everyone have a different sight, mind, mindset, vision and philosophy to see world. For many this world is most beautiful place and for many their life. Many have priority to family and many have priority to personal privacy.

Same way everyone give their different view on love. Here I will try to cope you up with my Thinking and my personal views and philosophy on love..... True love.

INTRODUCTION

Love is the finest feeling of life of anyone. No one can explain love in just a word. Love is not a quantity that you can measure, But love is that quality that you can express. Express with a bond. The bond whose strength is trust.

Many philosophers indirectly say that we love everyone in different limits. But if you see love from my sight, doing physical activities (sex, romance, flirting, talking, respecting,etc.) is not love. We love everyone in same type weather oppositie body is mother, father, sister, brother, girlfriend, boyfriend, or anyone else, but the 'pose' we use is different.

I would like to go deep for two lines to explain pose.

Pose means position to show something. Like every batsman in cricket stand in different pose and every baller throw ball in different pose. This is only to show. If we clearly see then at last all batsmen will hit ball in same way and every baller deliver ball in same way.

Same way we love everyone in same way but the poses we use is different. But after all final way according to me is same.

If you are satisfied with me then I would like to give you brief intro of content. The contents are indirectly the stages of love everyone passes:-

You are everything.   (Part one)

I'm everything.      (Part two)

We are everything.     (Part three)

Here on now, I will tell you about 3 important stages through which every person passes. Many people think that love is always between two oppositie sex or love with oppositie sex and love with our family and friends is different. But here I clarify that stages you read in this book is not different for everyone. In each stage you can love anyone whether that person is mother, father, brother or anyone else.

The first stage is that you are everything for me.

Yes. You are everything.' When you enters the field of love for very first time then the attitude start with the opposite person is everything for you and there is no value of you in world. The level of trust is at the peak level that he is everything, he can't make me hurt and even my existance in world is because of him.

This love is so pure for opposite body. Light travelles from sun to moon and reflects to earth so we are able to see moon. Actually we are not able to see light but we are able to see moon because of light. And if light is not present than we will not able to see moon.

So moon tells light that "Dear, you are everything. Without you I cannot exist, no one remember me and even my beauty cannot be bright without you."

At same time light tells moon "No dear, you are everything. Without you no one feels my presence.

By your beautiful reflection every person present on earth remember me and therefore you became my identity."

This is level of respect and also level of trust. Trust in the sense that whatever opposite body is doing is all for benefit of mine. In this way if we think then all the problems in relationship solve easily because there is no value of mine without him and if I left him then my existence will abolish.

Another relationship of this stage is when a child walk with mother he use to grap the finger of mother. This makes a trust in him that now no one will harm me because my mother is with me.

This is kind of trust which is followed and also the kind of love shown in first stage.

The second stage is continued but only when both body has successfully cleared first one.

And it is 'I am everything.'

When light of sun refract with moisture in environment and form a beautiful rainbow then sunlight tells to 7 colour of rainbow "I am everything. All the 7 colors present in you is me and I will never let your value down. I am always present here to glow you. Without me you are nothing."

In reply rainbow tells sunlight "Do dear, I am everything. Without my beauty no one cares about you. Even if someone directly comes in contact then they hate you. But I'm only your form which is liked by every one.'

Here talk sense to be attitude, but it is not. When you tell someone who loves from first stage that I'm everything, then it means that you are taking responsibility to care of that person. Here light take responsibility to keep glow of rainbow continue and rainbow take responsibility to keep respect of light in world till the end of its life.

A mother sacrifices her life in taking care of her family and specially her child. Father sacrifices life to earn for better future of child. This means they are currently on second stage of relationship. They are everything to child and without them that child cannot survive normally. But when that child grew up, now he takes responsibility of his mother and father. This way both show a good realitionship in second stage.

This stage teaches us responsibility. Sacrifice ourselves behind that oppositie body. This stage is to keep the trust on opposite body. Trust that he will never harm me and I will always be first to help him in his bad time and I will be first to stop him in his wrong paths.

If we think in second stage, then problem can't even start. Because if I am blaming that person then I am blaming myself. As I'm everything. I am that person who me I am blaming even I am the only reason behind his failure. I will solve that. I will stay with him in his worst days. Not because he is in need but because I love him.

Then here comes last part which is rarely gained by anyone. This part demands most consistency and potential.

Two waves are flowing on river. One is behind and other is back. Front wave tells " I am the champion. I am always in front."

After sometime it collapse land and start flowing back. Then back wave told " you are not a champ. No one here is champ. We are nothing."

But at the same time river from below speaks " you are nothing except my small part. But each of you makes me. Same way I makes you as I am source. So we are everything."

This stage teaches us biggest thing of life which is to live for each other. The sentence used in marriage banners 'Made for each other' is not a small thing. Meaning behind is so deep. When you sacrifice your life for a person who has cleared both the stages than you are loving him the most than anyone else in the world.

A mother sacrifice whole life behind child and father behind family. This is third stage of love.

In this stage you have to select a person who was your past, he is present and now you have confidence that only he can be your future. If you spend only 10 yrs of your life in 3rd stage for someone than you must be satisfied. Mother and father spend minum 20 years for child in 3rd stage, husband and wife spend minum 15 years for each other in 3rd stage, boyfriend and girlfriend can spend maximum 10 years for each other in 3rd stage. But this not means that after that their love comes to end, but this make their relationship even stronger. After some era they again step down and live happy life.

Always remember, " love is not a quantity to measure but, it a quality to show, to express."

" Love is a very fine bond of trust whose strength is understanding, which can be improved by love stages."

" No one is dominant in love. As both has no value in it or both ane the most valuable in it."