What do you dream about?
Was it difficult? Are you currently on a journey to reach that? You probably have goals set in your mind. Those are goals that you think are surely possible to achieve after going through obstacles. It is a part of settling your future. But sometimes we may wonder and ask ourselves "Why do we lose motivation to pursue this?".
Maybe you spill too much by telling your friends, family, or anyone, and that results in them either expecting high from you or they drag you down and letting themselves take over your decisions. This will result in a lot of pressure. Hence, you will lose energy in attaining your wanted goal.
Also, one of the reasons is you may think about your goal too much. We all have experienced realizing how everything doesn't happen exactly as we expect. Too many expectations and imagination in our heads may hinder us from reality. Such as we lose control of ourselves from seeing the future ahead of us that we aren't sure is gonna happen, and that will keep us distracted from dealing with real things. Shaping our future isn't a bad thing, but we have to think of limitations, as we can not decide our fate unless we do something. So why don't you start taking action and make progress that would truly benefit in moving forward to your goal?
After experiencing challenges, it's your choice whether to keep trying and be resilient or become a vulnerable useless being. Losing motivation is part of your trial. It could mess you up and the track to your goal. So keep what motivates you as your treasure. A precious treasure that does not deserve to be seen and held by anyone. There are times you might want to stand up against, that you may want to prove how you put a lot of courage into building your whole life, and you will think of your dream future that no one has ever seen yet.
Always remember to rule yourself and never let the opinion of others take over your decisions. Their opinions might guide you but they do not know you more than you do.
Keeping productivity is an advantage towards doing things that will soon make our choice satisfied and goals become achieved, or you can call it a butterfly effect.
" WORK HARD IN SILENCE, LET YOUR SUCCESS MAKE THE NOISE "
- someone