Stop comparing one person to another.
Why do we compare them to others if not what they can do, and why judge and compare them to others , it may not be the thing they can do but they can do something that others will never do, let's not compare them because we don't control other people's life, what they want to do or want to do let them be happy , because we never hold their life. and when they decide, let's let them be where they will be happy and we won't be the ones who will make them sad,
because we don't like what they will do, we will stop it, can't we give them what is for thier happiness.
Why compare if he/she has ability he/she can and others can't, it's wrong to compare someone who never compared you.