Is it worth it that you let the person you love be with someone that wasn't you?
is it worth it that you let your pain be Hidden from the person you love?
is it worth it that you said"You look great, go on be with your BF/GF,/Crush I'm sure he/she loves you too " while you suffer and regretting that you mean what you said?
we might sometimes think and try to answer what questions like this are in our mind but we can't because we are in pain, it's like our heart is sinking at first we think that the person we love is the right person for us and will be with us forever till death do us part but we didn't notice that, that's just a plan in the future that we forgot to fulfil because the person we love, love other Woman and not us.
it sucks to think that everything will stay as planned we didn't notice that the person we love didn't see the view that we see in the future because we didn't notice that they didn't see as their FOREVER they see as a NEVER in a million years. So it's better to let the person we love go rather than be with them because if you think that if you stay together with the person you love and didn't love you but felt pity for you will never be considered as a happy ending but a Sad ending and we all know that outlives will end if we did so in this case love is our weakness you might think you don't have any weakness but don't forget that the secret weakness that we never notice is LOVE, Love is always our weakness even if we stop loving someone we will be hurt because our actions can never stop because without love how can we say that our world is our Home. in my opinion the only thing to do to stop you from hurting much is let go of the person or anything that keeps you from being on a loop with your pain, suffering, etc. and move on because whenever you do that will never change, You can try and try and never give up trying to make him/her fall in love with You and forcing him/her to love you will never Change the fact that they didnt fell out of love with their real lover and they can have grudge or hate you like how you love them so LET GO now and never Chase the person that didnt love you as more than friends
I'm not doing this for me I am advising this for you because Love can make us obsessed with the person we want to have but never will have even in our next life and they say love the person and be with the person who loves you not you love because sometimes the person who loves you even from afar and you didn't know will be with you until the end ☺
but if He/she loves you too or even like you too then don't lose hope maybe he/she just fall for the wrong person - Gela