I have this person I’m super in love with. We were much closer when we first met and first dated. We’ve grown distant and I’m scared that I’ll lose it all. I really care for him and love him so much, it sucks that I can’t help him when needed and now it feels as if he’s pushing me away. When I ask him what’s wrong he uses excuses to not tell me or he’ll just say that doesn’t want to talk about it, I’m scared he’s growing distant and that it’ll stay that way. I only want to help him and try to be there for him but here’s really not letting me do so. I don’t whether or not I should ask him about it or just try to move on from it but I really need help. Because of him acting this way I feel like I’m useless and I have nothing to do anymore and no one to talk to. He rarely talks to me now ever since I’ve been back from the hospital, I wasn’t having such a good time and needed to take a break mentally. I couldn’t let him or anyone else know of my whereabouts and my condition, because of that he got worried and even decided to just stay friends. Being told that after coming back from the hospital sent me back into the state I left out of while being gone. Ever since that he became extremely distant, he rarely talks to me anymore and is never telling me anything. I’m scared that I’ll lose him and might even lose myself because of it, I truly love this guy and want only the best for him.
P.s. this is a true story
