Hi, I am Liza, I also had a boyfriend. His name was Adnan. Was tall, a bit thin and his smile was very attractive.
People take time to break a 3-year relationship because it is not so easy to break a 3-year relationship.
A few months before the breakup, a debate started between my mother and father and the reason for that argument was my father's second affair. I don't know why I started getting very angry from that day.
I never had the desire to know the right information about any married life. A married relationship was beginning to be considered a guest for a few days.
One night, my boyfriend called me and asked me, "What has happened to me?" That day so much tears came out automatically but I did not even realize. We take out our emotions openly in front of those whom we believe to be ours. Well, you can share your pain with anyone but you have to fight owns later.
One day dad really left my mother. For the first time I saw my mother crying, she was very lonely and started to the thought of herself as a recluse. Mother had not done anything except crying from day to night.
Why is it so easy to leave someone? customs, vows, why don't people understand the value of that thing even after fulfilling all this?
Gradually I started getting into a fight with my boyfriend because he could not understand my situation and I could not even explain it to him because I was feeling very lonely at that time.
Spent a few months of quarrel in this way, after that one day we had a breakup with each other. But I don't know why but he never asked about my inner problem and perhaps that is why I did not think it was right to stop him.
After 1 year he came back again. he started asking about my condition, started asking about the problem inside me, my family problems etc etc. But by then I had moved on, by then I had gone through that pain. But still, the heart said that I should give a chance and I listened to the heart. But this time he started quarrelling with me more than ever. In fact, he started cheating with me.
This is wrong, isn't it? But what to do, the heart does not listen to anyone, the heart is too weak more than the broken glass. What we want to do is the opposite heart does because hearts force us to do all those things.
But I did not cry this time.........
I took out my phone and just said two words to him - "it's over".
This accident taught me to live alone, taught me to be self-reliant and taught me that love is a very precious thing and this precious thing can't be found from everyone.
