Have you ever thought what is this feeling of falling in love? Have these questions ever crossed your mind? What if I fell in love? What is the feeling of falling in love? What if Love ends up hurting me? What if after I'm hurt because of live and end of not believing in it anymore? What if Love may be the cause of my death? What if my love always stayed one sided?
Love is a very basic topic nowadays there is just too many different types of love and I'm not talking about sexuality I'm talking about the family love, pet love, nature love, sisterly or brotherly love, friendly love and ofcourse the crush, one-sided and lover marriage type kind of love.
Well everyone mostly everyone love his their family even if they hate them there might be some things they might thank their family for. I absolutely love pets and I meant it like their so cute cuddly and soft and nature I may not be a hardcore lover of nature but it's really fun to take a nice drink or a cold drink sit in a hammock surrounded by trees and fresh air with your loved ones. Sound almost like paradise but where there are trees there are bugs.
Everyone must be wondering why the title is WHAT IF if the only thing I am talking about is love.
It just made me wonder today is love really complicated as it sounds? what makes live so complicated? By what I have seen Love never goes smoot and straight neither does it goes bumpy and curvy. It's just a mix sometimes the path is already made for you or you have to make it together.
What makes live comlicated is the What if's in it
When someone falls in love maximum are scared of being criticized by someone.
Stereotyping and criticism is actually a very big What if to deal with. You obviously can't deal with it alone you deal it together but what are these What if's? Do everyone go through it? In my country there is a saying "People keep talking that's is what people's job is."
Or in Hindi " Log kehte hai Logo Ka Kaam hai Kehna"
It means people keep talking ill about you behind your back those people who talk or criticize others are most likely jealous of your position or your luck I won't lie I might have criticized or judges someone too, everyone does but the point is never let this statement get in your head or heart ignore them and keep loving them.
People in relationship keep thinking even in start i thought about quite a lot.
What if the people don't think we look good together and he decides to break up? He is richer than me? What if his parents and relatives don't like me?
What if he falls out of love?
I will be really honest everyone goes through criticism and everyone criticizes it's alright.
If the person really loves you and you really him/her back than your relationship shouldn't get much affected by such statements infact there may be tonnes of fights but you have to get through them.
Relationships sometimes end pretty quickly which means he was not really the right one for you but you should move on and search for your right one but this may not happen in every case. Many people say long distance relationships don't work, gay and lesbian couples are really unlucky cause they can't have a child but in reality if they really want a child they can always go to the adoption center of orphanage and adopt kids who are actually in need.
There is always some bullshit craps cooked up by the people whose relationships don't end very well or don't like seeing couples.
Relationships are build on trusts and if you really trust them than you relationship should be just perfect obviously if you are fighting it's not that your relationships are gonna end up in a bad end a fight in a relationship makes it stronger.
Relationships aren't about just you it's about your other half too. If you are sad they should cheer you up if they are sad you should take the responsibility to cheer them up. If you both feel sad just you guys need a Netflix and Chill night. Well that's isn't compulsory you could always buy a cherish able gift or write a love letter. You could take them on a special date or spend some time with them. the price doesn't matter to be honest it's the thought that counts.
if one of you have a problem share it with them
May be they have a solution and can help you solve.
Always be there for each other.
Don't let the WHAT IF'S get in between.
"We can improve our relationships with others by leaps and bounds if we become encouragers instead of critics."
NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE PERFECT YOU GOTTA MAKE THEM PERFECT.
