I have read so many stories and almost all stories describe first love in the same cliche way. However I beg to differ. For me there is no such thing as first love. If it ain't working out girl that isn't love! If your first love doesn't reciprocate you feelings then it is a crush not love, if you break up with him then it was attraction not love, if you still miss him after break up that's loniless not love. For me if you love someone it means both of you share the same feeling. You can fight and disagree all you want but in the end you can't stay away from each other. If you truly love then you won't be separated from each other no matter what.You can read each others heart and even if the other person doesn't say it out loud you get him/her.
"I did it all for you, all the pain I suffered was all for you" this is the most stupidest line you could say to your loved ones. If a person truly loves me no matter what he won't be happy when I am suffering. He can find his happiness in my laughs and giggles but he can never find when I am in tears. So "I gave up my first love for his happiness" is bullshit.
The general notion that first love is associated to romantic feelings is obscure as far as I am concerned. You first love can be you mom who cares for you when you are sick and scolds you when you laze around or it can be your dad who appears strict but is a softie at heart and fulfills all your wishes or it could be your sibling who is you support system throughout life. Literally it could be anyone.
That's it I should limit my words here and stop before I offend anyone. Hope there is at least one person out there who reciprocates my thoughts we might not necessarily become friends or lovers but it is good to know you are not the only one thinking this way. Bye
