We all have faced various phases and types of love.
We all have met few strangers with whom we have fallen in love eventually or at first sight.
Some of us couldn't make up our mind to tell that one person and he/she remained our crush forever. And some of us gathered our courage and confessed him/her.
Next few got accepted and few got rejected.
We who got rejected often either try to forget that person or continue loving them. The later is called ๐ผ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
๐ณ๐๐๐.
Moreover, when we decide to not to confess our love to them but still continue with loving them, its also called ๐ถ๐๐-๐๐๐
๐๐
๐๐๐๐.
The love in which there's only one way attachment, in which the love of ours for them is not reciprocated back to us. The type of love in which the one whom we love, considers our love unwanted.
Most of us start doubting and judging our love for them. We question ourselves...
๐๐ข๐ด ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ค๐ค๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ?
๐๐ข๐ด ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฎ/๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ฉ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด?
๐๐ฎ ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง๐ช๐ด๐ฉ ๐ฃ๐บ ๐ธ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฎ/๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ข๐บ ๐ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฎ/๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ?
๐๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ธ๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ฆ?
๐๐ข๐ฏ ๐ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฎ/๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ?
๐๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ฉ๐ช๐ฎ/๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ?
And many more....
๐๐๐จ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐ฉ๐ค๐ค ๐ฅ๐ค๐ค๐ง ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ ๐๐๐ข/๐๐๐ง?
In my opinion, the one who is pouring one's heart through love, only has the right to decide it's worth.
Even if our love is compared unwanted, we must know the value of it and never let other's opinion undervalue it.
We should never think of our love worthless just because it was never reciprocated back. Because we shouldn't over look the fact that we still have the ability to love someone, and give it someone. We shouldn't focus on the ways they are mistreating our love instead we should focus on the fact that we still have love within us which makes us a beautiful person.
๐๐๐จ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐๐๐ข/๐๐๐ง ๐ง๐๐๐ก๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐๐ก๐๐จ๐จ?
Our love sometimes may not be worthless to them. Just because he/she doesn't love you the way you want doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love you or regards your love worthless. Again, if he/she fails to return our love, we shouldn't suppose it to be futile.
๐ผ๐ข ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐จ๐๐ก๐๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐จ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ข/๐๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ ๐ ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ข/๐๐๐ง?
We all give our love to others with a hope to receive the same. And hoping to receive your requited love isn't being selfish. Just like the way we have the right to offer love, we also have the right to receive it.
But again no matter how much you love him/her, how much you treat him/her well, how much you value him/her, he/she might not do the same to you because these people just fail to see the true worth and this isn't your fault that they don't know how to treasure gold.
๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐๐ก๐ก ๐ฃ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐๐ค๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐?
Sometimes time acts as the greatest remedy here. All we need to do is wait. If he/she is meant to be yours, he/she would come back. But if he/she never returns to you, you may or may not continue loving him/her because just like only you have the right to give your love a worth, you also have have the right decide whom and how much you want to shower your love on.
๐พ๐๐ฃ ๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ค๐ซ๐๐ง ๐๐๐ข/๐๐๐ง? ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ, ๐จ๐๐ค๐ช๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ฅ๐ค๐ก๐ค๐๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ข๐ฎ๐จ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ฉ๐ง๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ข๐ฎ๐จ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ?
In this phase of time, we are all advised by our friends or family to move on and try falling for someone else, someone better. Sometimes, they are correct to say this because One-sided love is like cactus, the more you hug them tightly, the more you get hurt.
Again, you are the one who should decide whom you want to love, so if you want to continue loving them, you can always love them how much you want. You can't stop the feeling you have for someone. You can't lie to yourself either. Your heart knows the truth all well too. And don't ever apologise or feel sorry for loving the way your heart knows how.
๐๐๐ก๐ก ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ค๐ง๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ข/๐๐๐ง?
Sometimes you have to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve. We all deserve to be loved.
However, love is like standing on a lately laid wet cement. The more long you stand, the more hard it gets to get out of there. Even when you get out there, footprint remain there forever.
