We live in a society where we can be happy as long as our happiness is okay for each and every person. We can choose our life partner as long as he/she is ideal for our society. We are free to choose any profession after the society approves it. We can wear anything as long as our 'society' is comfortable.
I we try to become ourselves we aren't becoming ourselves we are just becoming a rebel and later we will become something like a fucking demon. We aren't living our own lives we are living lives which are accepted by the society. Even parents aren't shaping their children's to live a happy life they are actually shaping their children in the way that can be accepted by the society. If we are ourselves we are something like the villain in a movie and the 'society' is the hero/savior. The number of taunts, comments, advices and stories that our 'society' gives is more than the number of stars in the universe.
If you want to live happily you shouldn't go on your way you should go on the way the 'society' shows you. Your weight, height, color of your hair, eye's pupil and even your character and nature should be according to the 'society'.
We are not only living in just 'society' we are living in a 'judgmental society'. We are judged even before we know why are we judged for. A person who hasn't even seen you or knows you will not take even a second to judge you by your clothes, your way of speaking and blah blah. If you are running in a corridor people will say you are ill mannered no one will even think that maybe you are going to hospital because your someone close had got into an accident or something like that. All they will say is ' He/She is really ill mannered. '
Have you ever thought why this all happens?? The simple answer is ' because of you yourself '. Yeah, that's true. If you won't give importance to what the 'society' thinks or talks about you then as a conclusion you will be free from the ' society's' cage of taunts and blah blah blah. You are yourself and you should be yourself. You are just losing yourself because you want to be 'perfect' for the 'society'. Becoming perfect is not something wrong but becoming perfect by becoming someone else for the 'society' is just .... despicable.
You shouldn't change yourself for someone who doesn't care. Once you become perfect for the 'society', it will just tell other one to be perfect. This is just like a chain. Many people tried but failed to break this chain, you should also try maybe you can break this chain and save others from this hell....
