It was a school meeting after long time..... we didn't visit school for about 2 years cause of covid....and this meeting was to discuss our opinions on online classes..... I was with paying attention to the host's words and suddenly his one sentence hurted me..... he told that students now-a-days are so ignorant that when Thier parents gave them mobile phones to attend classes they use that phone to play games and get distracted..... they don't use it in a good way at all.... they take advantage of Thier parents who don't know much about technology.... the host also said that even if the parents scold Thier children so bad.... they don't care .... and hearing this many parents agreed to this ....and I was soo angry at that time .... I wanted to stand up and speak out my mind and tell them not all the students do the same ..... but my friend who was beside me held my hand and told me not to do it because it might bring bad impression..... and I stayed quite ..... but guess what.... my dad stood up and went on the stage .... I was stunned..... he took the mic and started speaking..... he asked other parents that is what the host said true? and most of them said yes ..... and my dad asked them if they tried any way to bring Thier kid to right path and most of them said I've scolded him many times.... and I even beat him but he ( Thier kid) didn't change.... and my dad said with a confident voice.... the more you scold him the more he'll get spoilt.... the more you beat him the more he want to go against you.... why not try to change him with love.... and one of the parent asked him how to do that? and my dad said believe in him.... encourage him.... say that you trust him.... you trust him that he won't make bad use of phone..... tell some good words about him.... and after that even when they are making bad use of it... they'll feel guilty and they'll feel bad for fooling you... they'll start to study hard.... but if you use domineering way... he'll just become scared and he will hold a grudge against you and he'll be more spoilt.... but if you use love.... he'll try every single way to keep you happy and not let you down.....and after saying this my dad came down from stage and everyone started clapping and he looked at me and smiled.... which made me soo proud ...... ❣️.....
hereby I want to ask every parent to trust your kid.... if you don't trust your kid then who will???.... and students too must not fool your parents and shouldn't let them down.... ❣️❣️....
Trust ❣️
