I am sure it's something everyone has wondered in their life....right??
Everyone wants the perfect man or women for themselves like that in stories....but does an ideal match really exsits?? hmmmm.....hard question? I know....thats how confusing love is.
Nowadays everyone just appreciates the outer beauty like how you look ..the way you dress...the way you speak.....and if you think seriously then there is nothing wrong in it also right?? ...like I would also want someone that will look perfect with me........but the things we do wrong is to judge a person by its outer looks....inner beauty can never be hidden from someone for a long time..it will eventually find its way to a person eyes who's worth to see it.
Ya ofcourse it's true that it might give us a short term satisfaction to be with the perfect type of man or women in your life but we should not forget that eventually it's heart that connect in the long run not the face......see I told you at the beginning only that love is complicated...not just for you or me but for everyone....actually it's never been easy only.
But I will tell you what I think love could actually mean.
Maybe it's the comfort that we find in someone else that we can't find even in our friends and family....someone who will believe us no matter what...someone who will scold us when we are wrong without hurting our feelings.....someone who I can talk with freely without thinking of what he or she will think about me...someone who can judge my mood by just the expression on my face.....someone who I can hold hands with when I am lonely....someone to make me feel that yes I am also important for someone...someone to help me in my ups and downs....
Everyone want this type of person right??? I mean who wouldn't.....this is the literal defination of life partner only - "someone who stays with you for a lifetime so that you won't be alone."
But we all again forgot one thing that apart from expecting so many things from the other person we also have to give them the same things....they also have the same expectations fron us....they also want us to he their light in the dark.....right??
we should always remember one thing that our partner may not be our ideal type of boyfriend or girlfriend but are you there ideal type??😗But still you chose then and they chose you because it is love that matters....there are faults in everyone ...no one is born perfect.
if the person you are with makes you happy , makes you feel completed , makes you feel secured that trust me never leave their hand ever or you may regret it 😔....
if their are arguments between you two then sit down and talk about it with each other..listen to others person perspective and think about it....well I am not speaking about toxic relationships ,that's not love it's just obsession and craziness ...well that's a whole another topic ....maybe we'll talk about it sometime later. But as of now I was saying that In a relationship both the persons has to compromise...it's a two way system...control your anger and don't say words that can't be taken back , don't make promises that you can't fulfill , don't make the other person so dependent on you if you have doubts about it...because it hurts...even if a friend breaks a small promise you feel betrayed...right??? 🙄
Now that you have reached so far..you must be thinking that I am a mature women to write about what love is...but I am very sorry to disappoint you but i am just a 16 year old girl in her teens who has never been in love before let alone relationship...but why I am writing this is tell people what I imagine love to be....pure , sweet , true , sometimes sour , sometimes bitter but in the end it's good....
Maybe real life is very much different from what I have imagined but I would not like to destroy my thoughts because it give me hope that true love still exists...that there is someone for everyone 😉 I know I am silly 😜 but it's ok..that's what make me unique and FYI I am not desperate to find love....well I have a lot of time and so much more to do with my life other than finding love......so how can I have time to love someone but maybe in the future if that person exsits he will find me.. hopefully 😚
well I am very sorry🙁 if I have said something that hurts you or your feelings ...it was not intentional. I just wrote what I feel like.
Sorry if there are any spelling mistakes or grammatical errors🙏
❤️THANKS FOR READING ❤️
