I'm saying this with personal experience my bf broke up with me 4 years ago because I lied to him about something really silly and ik i shouldn't have but at that moment that's what felt right to me and that's all I could do I still accept it was my fault i shouldn't have lied... he broke up for that calling me a liar and what not and it wasn't some random relationship i was his first ever gf and I was his childhood crush too like we have known each other for many years now so it's not like it was some random relationship and he just needed some reason to breakup or something he could forgive me but he didn't because he has certain rules and boundaries in a relationship and life that he always follows and i broke one rule and he protected himself and broke up he could risk anything he couldn't risk his peace and I think it's somehow right too...
2026-03-26
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Isha
they are not meant to be.... to be practical.. it will never ever work even if they forgive each other and everything goes right, they can never ever forget that theo can never. and it's not like ki u broke my limbs and they will be fine after some months or something. her family really disabled him for life and he can never ever forget this nor he can truly forgive those people even if he tries to, he can't they will forgive each other come together but then whenever they have some arguments or fights theo will somehow always say this that ur nobody to tell me this that you did this that even though it wasn't her it was her family but still he will point at her everytime they have some fight so it's not gonna work they will be happy for sometime then a single normal couple fight comes and it will all be shattered again.
2026-03-26
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Isha
if he forgave me and things went simple maybe i would have lied again for some silly reason which would have again hurt him.. it's not that I don't trust myself but sometimes situations become so twisted and we do exactly what we said we would never do... so he did what felt right but now even after four years we are still in contact we have no name to our relationship idk if we are friends or strangers or what coz exes cannot be friends and we certainly are not strangers too coz strangers don't anyhow stick together for four years now he wants to come back to relationship but I am not ready. not because it's him but because I just can't prepare myself for a relationship again I can't... I'm not ready at all I'm really scared and I can't trust anybody too no matter how hard I try..
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Isha
I'm saying this with personal experience
my bf broke up with me 4 years ago because I lied to him about something really silly and ik i shouldn't have but at that moment that's what felt right to me and that's all I could do
I still accept it was my fault i shouldn't have lied...
he broke up for that calling me a liar and what not
and it wasn't some random relationship
i was his first ever gf and I was his childhood crush too like we have known each other for many years now
so it's not like it was some random relationship
and he just needed some reason to breakup or something
he could forgive me but he didn't because he has certain rules and boundaries in a relationship and life that he always follows and i broke one rule and he protected himself and broke up he could
risk anything he couldn't risk his peace
and I think it's somehow right too...
2026-03-26
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Isha
they are not meant to be....
to be practical..
it will never ever work
even if they forgive each other and everything goes right, they can never ever forget that theo can never. and it's not like ki u broke my limbs and they will be fine after some months or something. her family really disabled him for life and he can never ever forget this nor he can truly forgive those people even if he tries to, he can't
they will forgive each other come together but then whenever they have some arguments or fights theo will somehow always say this that ur nobody to tell me this that you did this that
even though it wasn't her it was her family but still he will point at her everytime they have some fight
so it's not gonna work they will be happy for sometime then a single normal couple fight comes and it will all be shattered again.
2026-03-26
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Isha
if he forgave me and things went simple maybe i would have lied again for some silly reason which would have again hurt him.. it's not that I don't trust myself but sometimes situations become so twisted and we do exactly
what we said we would never do...
so he did what felt right
but now even after four years we are still in contact
we have no name to our relationship
idk if we are friends or strangers or what coz exes cannot be friends and
we certainly are not strangers too coz strangers don't anyhow stick together for four years
now he wants to come back to relationship but I am not ready. not because it's him but because I just can't prepare myself for a relationship again I can't... I'm not ready at all I'm really scared and I can't trust anybody too no matter how hard I try..
2026-03-26
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