I don't know why I am sharing these depressing thoughts here in public but since I feel like my personality is close to ur best friend's i want to help as much as I can . Since she is not able to open able i feel like if I can tell u what a person like her would probably feel after being heartroken then maybe you would be able to find some solution. I am someone who thinks as of love equals nightmare . SO if I was ever to entrust my heart to someone only to know it didn't value much to the other inwould feel like the world suffocated me . It would feel like the gravity was sucked out of me because to me love was a dangerous concept . something more terrifying than death . But imagine if i actually crossed my line for someone . I actually let myself fall even knowing the pain of it , when I actually trusted someone to be my shield even after life taught me that the only one who would protect me was myself , imagine the pain when I fought every insecurities, every nightmare just for that one person to tell ,e I wasn't important enough for him to hold onto . I cannot even imagine myself in that state .
2026-05-21
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Baby Moon Princess 🌙 🌟
Thirdly I can't bring myself to imagine what your friend is actually going through. It's like a nightmare to me . Believe me or not but I feel like her personality is so much similar to mine . I am a person who has always been the one to fight every storm head on from a very young age . At a time I used to crave shelter , protection, but as time went one life molded me into becoming a shield for others . Now , it feels like protecting others is as natural as breathing oxygen with asking for it back . not only protection but just like u said among those around me I am the ... though shell kind . I refused to break easily . I refused to cry . I am also the kind who likes to make others smile even though I am breaking inside so I feel like I and your friend have a very similar personality . And too add extra flavour i am someone who takes love as a waste of time and feelings . Yes , i love reading taekook love stories , yes I even write romantic story , but when it comes to reality it's a big no for me . For me , the door of love is the only door I would never open . So seeing it from my perspective if I ever dared to open that door for someone and to finally find that even after six years of dedicatedly building something which I feared more than death actually came to be the exact picture of my nightmares i would be devasted beyond words .
2026-05-21
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Baby Moon Princess 🌙 🌟
I am not much experienced so I won't talk big about giving solutions but if I was in her place I would be complicated enough to want a constant company yet not want to see anyone infront of me . It's like showing someone whom I always protect that I can be weak too would feel like I am worthless and pathetic. But at the same time if she leaves me I would feel like there is no one who cares enough to be with me . So all I can say , give her space but don't let her feel alone . be there for her without being infront of her , At this time she doesn't need a light to pull her out of the dark ess but needs a presence who would accompany her through the abyss . If u pressure her to cheerup or move on she would only learn to hide her true surrows under the burning mask of a smile . So don't try to cheer her up . stop giving her advices .
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Baby Moon Princess 🌙 🌟
I don't know why I am sharing these depressing thoughts here in public but since I feel like my personality is close to ur best friend's i want to help as much as I can . Since she is not able to open able i feel like if I can tell u what a person like her would probably feel after being heartroken then maybe you would be able to find some solution.
I am someone who thinks as of love equals nightmare . SO if I was ever to entrust my heart to someone only to know it didn't value much to the other inwould feel like the world suffocated me . It would feel like the gravity was sucked out of me because to me love was a dangerous concept . something more terrifying than death . But imagine if i actually crossed my line for someone . I actually let myself fall even knowing the pain of it , when I actually trusted someone to be my shield even after life taught me that the only one who would protect me was myself , imagine the pain when I fought every insecurities, every nightmare just for that one person to tell ,e I wasn't important enough for him to hold onto . I cannot even imagine myself in that state .
2026-05-21
3
Baby Moon Princess 🌙 🌟
Thirdly I can't bring myself to imagine what your friend is actually going through. It's like a nightmare to me . Believe me or not but I feel like her personality is so much similar to mine . I am a person who has always been the one to fight every storm head on from a very young age . At a time I used to crave shelter , protection, but as time went one life molded me into becoming a shield for others . Now , it feels like protecting others is as natural as breathing oxygen with asking for it back . not only protection but just like u said among those around me I am the ... though shell kind . I refused to break easily . I refused to cry . I am also the kind who likes to make others smile even though I am breaking inside so I feel like I and your friend have a very similar personality .
And too add extra flavour i am someone who takes love as a waste of time and feelings . Yes , i love reading taekook love stories , yes I even write romantic story , but when it comes to reality it's a big no for me . For me , the door of love is the only door I would never open .
So seeing it from my perspective if I ever dared to open that door for someone and to finally find that even after six years of dedicatedly building something which I feared more than death actually came to be the exact picture of my nightmares i would be devasted beyond words .
2026-05-21
1
Baby Moon Princess 🌙 🌟
I am not much experienced so I won't talk big about giving solutions but if I was in her place I would be complicated enough to want a constant company yet not want to see anyone infront of me . It's like showing someone whom I always protect that I can be weak too would feel like I am worthless and pathetic. But at the same time if she leaves me I would feel like there is no one who cares enough to be with me . So all I can say , give her space but don't let her feel alone . be there for her without being infront of her , At this time she doesn't need a light to pull her out of the dark ess but needs a presence who would accompany her through the abyss . If u pressure her to cheerup or move on she would only learn to hide her true surrows under the burning mask of a smile . So don't try to cheer her up . stop giving her advices .
2026-05-21
1