I must say even my father arranged money when his elder brother aka my bade papa took sign of my father on a loan on hos house 2 years back and then eventually he doesn't return loan money to bank and then police and people from bank come to put locks on our house also bcz he not only took only on his home but our also without informing my father and they literally know that police was going to come that day so they close their doors from inside and not inform us..... I was in class 11 when i was coming towards my home i saw police and many cars and ran as fast i can and saw my father sitting outside the main door of our house and pleading to police not to put locks that's the most heartbreaking thing I saw in my entire life and our neighbors help by thier higher ups contact to resolve the matter but we had to give the whole loan of lakhs of rupees bcz bade papa said he doesn't have even a coin to give... my father arranged whole money with help of relatives, his friends and by selling a piece of land....... First thing i realize not all blood relations are pure they can betray you and also my fathers friends who help him i realized in today's world we should make friends who not only stand with us in good time but also bad times And there is something surprising thing happen this year in my bade papa family if you guyz want to know comment below ❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-19
5
ARUHI
I would say it's good, you to experience this without burning yourself more and turning this into something more. As I already had an relationship experience which was appr. 2 yr and it ended on ghosting, i don't know what I want, I love you but we can't be type of shit. But it already been 1.5 yr of breakup and I am happy with everything what happen even though it was quite hell that time with panic attacks, had to hide your sadness with family etc.... i learned a lot, that we girls are different from males thinking pattern what you think is forever but thats not how male think they are like present thinker. they get attract -put efforts -behave nice - make promises (that time they are damn sure) -get girl or something cherish it, but after sometime they literally had no idea what they gonna do in future now, get confuse -dont know what they want -start avoiding -when you get tired this shit and decide to leave -they beg -no that not i am saying. 😮💨 its a CYCLE and I would say they are innocent cause they are not doing some drama or play, they are like this which can't be change. apart from my experience, i had listened to many other known one stories and its same pattern.
2026-07-20
3
Jeelll
I have experienced situationship, relationships and talking stage and every time i thought i will not find similar kind of guys like last one and i did finf different guy but you know what I realised that everyone is not same. I mean every guy I’ve talked to turned to be a shitty guy. Every guy has different cons. I thought I will not behave like how i behaved last time i will not behave desperate but still that guy turned out to be a shitty guy. What I am trying to tell is in this generation it’s very hard to find good men who treats you well. Men has different kind of emotions. They don’t function like us. At starting they are nice and they get bored so they starts ignoring you but when you backed off. Suddenly they have interest but again they lost interest. So the cycle keeps repeating. They don’t wanna loose you also and they don’t want you also. So now after experiencing every kind of shitty situations and seeing other relationships I decided I will never trust a guy.
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I must say even my father arranged money when his elder brother aka my bade papa took sign of my father on a loan on hos house 2 years back and then eventually he doesn't return loan money to bank and then police and people from bank come to put locks on our house also bcz he not only took only on his home but our also without informing my father and they literally know that police was going to come that day so they close their doors from inside and not inform us..... I was in class 11 when i was coming towards my home i saw police and many cars and ran as fast i can and saw my father sitting outside the main door of our house and pleading to police not to put locks that's the most heartbreaking thing I saw in my entire life and our neighbors help by thier higher ups contact to resolve the matter but we had to give the whole loan of lakhs of rupees bcz bade papa said he doesn't have even a coin to give... my father arranged whole money with help of relatives, his friends and by selling a piece of land....... First thing i realize not all blood relations are pure they can betray you and also my fathers friends who help him i realized in today's world we should make friends who not only stand with us in good time but also bad times
And there is something surprising thing happen this year in my bade papa family if you guyz want to know comment below ❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-19
5
ARUHI
I would say it's good, you to experience this without burning yourself more and turning this into something more. As I already had an relationship experience which was appr. 2 yr and it ended on ghosting, i don't know what I want, I love you but we can't be type of shit. But it already been 1.5 yr of breakup and I am happy with everything what happen even though it was quite hell that time with panic attacks, had to hide your sadness with family etc.... i learned a lot, that we girls are different from males thinking pattern what you think is forever but thats not how male think they are like present thinker. they get attract -put efforts -behave nice - make promises (that time they are damn sure) -get girl or something cherish it, but after sometime they literally had no idea what they gonna do in future now, get confuse -dont know what they want -start avoiding -when you get tired this shit and decide to leave -they beg -no that not i am saying. 😮💨 its a CYCLE and I would say they are innocent cause they are not doing some drama or play, they are like this which can't be change. apart from my experience, i had listened to many other known one stories and its same pattern.
2026-07-20
3
Jeelll
I have experienced situationship, relationships and talking stage and every time i thought i will not find similar kind of guys like last one and i did finf different guy but you know what I realised that everyone is not same. I mean every guy I’ve talked to turned to be a shitty guy. Every guy has different cons. I thought I will not behave like how i behaved last time i will not behave desperate but still that guy turned out to be a shitty guy. What I am trying to tell is in this generation it’s very hard to find good men who treats you well. Men has different kind of emotions. They don’t function like us. At starting they are nice and they get bored so they starts ignoring you but when you backed off. Suddenly they have interest but again they lost interest. So the cycle keeps repeating. They don’t wanna loose you also and they don’t want you also. So now after experiencing every kind of shitty situations and seeing other relationships I decided I will never trust a guy.
2026-07-19
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