Third stage

When after know each other after all first impression and attitude ..thats the stage where things got out of the hands and we got so used to it with that person that we got afraid of it losing them that what we called attachment ..and starting depend on person ...its not bad to get attach but we have to not lose ourselves ..dont disconnect yourself just for to connect to others and i am sure you wont be happy with it . No matter how much great this person to you .

thats the third stage where you unable to leave that person in any case .. Where love become stronger.

writer third stage also same she wanted to leave him because of his bad behavior towards herself was  unbearable ..but couldn't..... she used to him and that attachment unable to let her go .. thats the stage where people give more chance to each other and thats also the stage people start hurt each others feelings ..

one feel jealous other will also deliberately make you feel same way ..

Writer also did same stuff with his man ..that day she felt sad because he avoid her for other woman ..he just forget me there like i am nothing ..writer start feeling low because the way he treat her was unbearable to her ...but still she forgive him .. not to mention that stuff ..but suddenly writer want him to feel same way ...so she next day start treat him same way ..his man got angry and started to abuse her ....by then writer was thinking why i didnt dare to got angry at him that same day ...why she couldnt abuse him too ...she started thinking to leave him ...but at the moment she decided to leave ...his man came to her room and said .."No ...you cant leave me ..his eyes full of tears and hugging her ...also scolding her ..how dare you to think of it to leave me ? In fact our chapter of life just started and you just like this leave me without any words moreover i was being abused because of you liked it isnt it" ?

writer has a dark fantasy of being get abuse by his man ..and she told her all stuff to him what she really desire about ...

but the fact is ...there is great difference using those fantasy in real life..people should know when and where have to respect their partner ..we are human ..do mistakes and its normal ..but you know what writer say then ?

she knows she is in third stage of love ..its very difficult to leave him ..and same goes to him ..because he is also in same stage as i am ..same feelings and we really want to work together in this relationship ...they decided ...not to compare your partner with any other ..dont look back of each others partner's past personal life ...not to be Judgy ...they both agree on that 3 point ..and started to treat each other well..

but writer still thinking of his bad behavior ..she still afraid of it ..

the thing is in this world no one perfect and you have to accept your partner as is it .. if you cant handle your partner's behavior or you feel so depressed about it..dont stay longer with them ..thats only waste of time ...

communication and respect in relationship is so important without it there is no love ..nothing ..you only lose yourself ..if you love someone you have to treat him and being treated is basic needs for people ..

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